Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Did You Know


Giving out advice and judgment are two different conception.

Whenever you find yourself passing judgment on someone else, start to see differences and variations instead of black and white, right or wrong. Let go of the ideals you use for judging, and respect other people's right to their viewpoints. Or, if other just seem to be acting stupidly, don't judge- let them go through their own process in their own time.

Before you start to judge other person, ask yourself one question- Am I greater than the judgemen I am going to give out ? If you are not, then you are making a fool out of yourself- nonsense!

1 comment:

smilnsigh said...

Giving advice and judging, are certainly two different things. And even when asked by someone, to give advice to them -- do they really want advice?

Maybe all they want is for someone to listen to them... To listen to their problem. And just be there, for them... Maybe they don't really want advice...

Maybe, just having someone listen to them, will be enough, for them to make up their own mind, as to what to do.... Maybe...

Mari-Nanci